Why is my girlfriend so clingy
I Have A Clingy Girlfriend : What Should I Do?
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hi everyone I'm Allen haff want the I am
your dating and relationship coach
founder of Apollonia plenti.com
and I am your coach for you men to match
your attraction skills build the
confidence overall for your love lives
and for your dating lives as well
in today's video we're going to talk
about clingy girlfriend I was requested
from a viewer to do a video about a
clingy girlfriend and typically when you
have a clean your girlfriend it's
because you're getting to a point where
you're just like this is too much I love
her but I can't continue to be around
this I need to get her to change and
understand this as well so we're going
to do for you in this video is I'm gonna
break down the reasons why a woman
typically is clingy with her boyfriend
and then how you as a man can assert
yourself in the way of being a leader to
try to change this overall so does not
diminish the attraction in your
relationship so we're gonna first go
into why woman would she typically
clingy with you in a relationship
number-one reason would be a common
reason is because she is very insecure
within herself and possibly the
relationship meaning that she needs the
validation she needs the attention
constantly and she just looks for you to
constantly reassure her if this is the
case and you feel like this is your
girlfriend what I would encourage you to
do with someone like this in a
relationship is encourage them to find
something else in their life that they
would fall in love with besides you now
I know it could be scary because you're
like I don't want to take away my
attention and I don't want this to
happen and things like that but here's
the thing we're a real flourishing
healthy relationships come from a
balance where two people find something
in their lives they're very passionate
about and then they're passionate about
each other because if you only have one
thing in life that you're passionate
about and it's just that one person that
you love you're gonna give them your all
where can become overbearing and that's
what's happening to her right now so
encourage her to find something go out
to events with her and courage to do new
classes encourage her to do things
talk to her things talk to her about it
and the number two it leads into kind of
a number one is she's just not too happy
with herself and and I won't actually
classify this as number two because it
goes into that as well she's just not
too happy with herself right so there's
a lot of times where you can be in a
relationship and a woman can just be
lost in the
relationship and then always wanting to
be clingy because you are her lifeline
right like she doesn't know life without
you and typically this comes from
suffering if she's suffering one of the
biggest things that's like I would
really encourage you to encourage her to
go and talk to someone to do meditation
classes to do self-development work to
read books things like that where you
can kind of push her on to her personal
journey of exploitation so she can find
some freedom and some maybe past trauma
some past things that have happened to
her as well now another reason why a
woman would be clingy is because it's
her love language okay and this comes
down to like a lot of cultural
differences and I can speak from
experience on this one I'm Hispanic
woman and we are raised to be
affectionate people since the day we're
born
we hug we kiss we touch when we talk we
use our hands obviously a lot when we
talk and the European culture can be a
little bit different and they're very
not as much touchy-feely and culturally
or just typically in the way that you
were raised in a household sometimes
this can happen right so it can make you
feel a little off-balance if you have a
girlfriend that you truly do like but
she's very different from what you've
been up brought brought in your family
or what you've experienced so what I
really encourage you to do here is keep
an open mind right because in different
cultures you can learn a lot from each
other and typically a woman that is
Hispanic can be very what you would call
clingy but it's just more affectionate
and if you are not this person just
talking about it because this could be
her love language and your love language
can be different and that's why I always
talk about one of my highly recommended
books when it comes to love and I don't
really recommend books often when it
comes to love but this one I do love
it's called the five love languages by
Gary Chapman and you can really find out
a lot about your partner just by the
love languages that they speak and that
they do and that they want to receive
and that they give back to you and vice
versa
so those the reasons why a woman would
be clingy here's the thing man is like
no matter what Klingon girlfriend a bad
breakup a relationship that it might be
toxic or even a good relationship you
have to understand that you your
boundaries
within so in order for you to reflect
those boundaries and be assertive with
respect to a woman don't be afraid to
say exactly what you think and have it
in a discussion and what you want and
talk about it in discussion for example
if your girlfriend's being too clingy
right now and you were just so turned
off by it it's okay to tell her listen
I'm not wanting you to be clingy I want
to miss you sometimes and because the
fact that you do this this and this it
makes me feel this way so once you start
getting a constructive conversation into
your relationship it's a lot better
because nothing is going to change
unless it's talked about so that's the
last tip that you have to talk to your
girlfriend about this if you liked
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I'll see you again in the next video and
remember you are always loved bye for
now
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